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September 17, 2026
Julianne Gåsvær
What happens to the home in the event of a breakup?
When a relationship ends, there are usually three options:
1. One person buys out the other.
2. The home is sold on the open market.
3. You continue to own the home together during a transition period.
Which solution is best depends, among other things, on your financial situation, the children’s circumstances, the housing market, and how much debt you have.
Can you afford to stay?
We can help you calculate costs and apply for loans on your behalf at several banks.
Also, ask yourself the following questions:
- How will your finances look with a single income?
- Can you handle higher interest rates?
- Do you have a financial cushion?
- What happens if unexpected expenses arise?
Many people underestimate expenses such as:
- Municipal fees
- Electricity
- Maintenance
- Insurance
Common expenses. Create a realistic budget before you decide to move in.
Equity and Ownership Interests
If you own different shares of the home, the settlement will normally take this into account. If one of the parties contributed more equity at the time of purchase or is registered as having a larger ownership share, this may affect how much that person will receive in a settlement.
How do I buy out my cohabiting partner/
r spouse from the home?
A buyout is the most common solution when one party wishes to continue living in the home.
First, you must determine the home’s market value. This is usually done through one or more appraisals. Then, the mortgage is subtracted from the home’s value to determine the net value.
If one person is to take over the home alone, that person must normally compensate the other party with this amount. Example:
Overview
Home Ownership Structure
Two owners with equal ownership shares. The figures show the property’s value, joint debt, and how much each owner is left with after the loan is deducted.
| Post | Amount | Note |
|---|---|---|
| Property value | 6,000,000 NOK | Market value |
| Joint Mortgage | 4,000,000 kr | Joint debt |
| Net equity | 2,000,000 NOK | Value minus loans |
| Ownership stake | 50/50 | Two owners |
| Each owner's share of equity (2 owners) | 1,000,000 kr | Net equity ÷ 2 |
Each owner is entitled to 1,000,000 kroner.
The ownership share is 50/50, and each of the two owners is therefore entitled to half of the net equity (2,000,000 NOK ÷ 2 = 1,000,000 NOK).
Transferring Ownership of a Home After a Breakup—Do You Have to Pay a Document Fee?
If you want to buy out your cohabiting partner and transfer the home to your name, you must fill out a new deed.
You can apply for an exemption if you meet one of these requirements:
- Same registered address for at least 2 years. You may have moved homes, but you’ve had the same address for at least 2 years.
- You have children together. Cohabitants who have, have had, or are expecting children.
There is no exemption for vacation homes or properties other than a shared residence.
You can read more at the Norwegian Mapping Authority
Breakups and Shared Housing:
What Happens to the Mortgage, Ownership, and Finances?
A breakup is often an emotionally taxing time. At the same time, for many people, it’s the biggest financial decision they’ll ever have to make. When you own a home together, you not only have to agree on who will stay in the home, but you also have to deal with the mortgage, equity, property valuation, ownership, and your future finances.
For most households, their home is their most valuable asset. That’s why it’s important to get a clear picture of your options early on, so you can make sound financial decisions and avoid unnecessary conflicts. In many cases, both cohabiting partners and spouses can agree that one party will take over the home, but this usually requires that they agree on the value and that the bank approves the financing.
The Bank's Income Requirements
Banks consider the following, among other things:
– Income: The general rule is that total debt must be less than 5 times annual gross income
– Existing debt
– Ability to pay
– Credit score
– Any financial obligations to dependents
When should you refinance?
In many cases, a new loan must be taken out to cover both the existing mortgage and the buyout of the other party. Refinancing may be an option if:
– The value of your home has increased
– You need funds to buy out your co-owner
– Your existing loan needs to be modified
This is also a good opportunity to see if you can get better terms than before.
Do you need a co-borrower?
Some people who want to continue living in their home after a breakup do not meet the bank’s requirements on their own. In such situations, a co-borrower or a guarantor may be a solution. Let’s take a look together at your options:
Can you take over the home after a breakup? We'll help you find the answer.
If you wish to continue living in the home, it is important to clarify the following:
- How much the home is worth in today’s market
- How much of the buyout amount needs to be financed
- Whether you can take over the existing mortgage on your own
- Whether refinancing can improve your financial situation
- Which banks are most likely to approve your application.
At Eiendomsfinans, we help people going through a separation find good financing solutions.
We assess your situation on a case-by-case basis and obtain offers from several banks to see what options are available to you.
Get a no-obligation assessment.
Are you unsure whether you can buy out your partner or spouse and keep the home?
Contact Eiendomsfinans today for a free, no-obligation review of your finances. We’ll help you get a clear picture of your options before you make one of life’s most important financial decisions.
Does the bank have to approve my taking over the loan?
Yes. Even if you both agree, the bank must approve that you can manage the debt on your own.
Tax on Sales
The profit from the sale of a home is tax-free as long as you have had a registered address there for at least one of the past two years.
Summary
Make the right financial choices early on
A breakup is challenging enough on its own. When you also own a home together, many questions may arise
regarding buyouts, mortgages, equity, and what you can actually afford going forward.
For some, the best solution will be to buy out the other party and continue living in the home. For others, selling the home will provide the most
financial flexibility. The most important thing is to get a realistic assessment of your financial situation as early as possible, so you can make
decisions based on facts rather than uncertainty.
Many people find that the bank from which they already have a loan refuses to take over their home.
That doesn’t necessarily mean all hope is lost. Regulations, credit assessments, and banking practices vary,
and there are often more financing options than one might initially think.
Checklist for a Breakup
and a Shared Home:
- Obtain a property appraisal
- Identify all debts
- Document ownership interests
- Prepare an overview of equity
- Determine who will take over the home
- Explore financing options
- Obtain the bank’s approval for assuming the loan
- Assess tax implications
- Update insurance policies
- Sign the necessary documents
FAQ - Frequently Asked Questions About Separation When Sharing a Home
Can I buy out my cohabiting partner?
Yes. If you agree on the value of the home and the bank approves the financing, you can buy out your partner and take sole ownership of the home.
How is the buyout amount calculated?
Typically, the property is owned 50/50. In that case, you obtain appraisals from 2–3 different real estate agents and agree on a value based on the average of those appraisals. Then, you subtract the mortgage balance from the home’s value. The remaining value is then divided by 2. If you do not own the property 50/50, the division is based on the respective ownership shares.
Does the bank have to approve my taking over the loan?
Yes. Even if you both agree, the bank must approve that you can handle the debt on your own. Otherwise, the other party will continue to be jointly and severally liable for the debt along with you. This limits the other party’s ability to take out a new loan to purchase their own home.
What happens if we can’t reach an agreement?
If you cannot agree on a price or on who will take over the home, a sale may be
necessary. In some cases, the matter may result in forced sale.
The Co-ownership Act resolves disputes related to one cohabitant’s desire to sell the shared home when the other does not share that desire.
Can I stay in the home if we have children?
Children’s need for stability can be an important factor when determining who should retain the home following a separation. A strong argument for retaining the home and its contents following a separation is in cases where the parent seeking the home will have primary custody of the children.
At the same time, the decision should be financially sustainable. Excessive loans and too much debt can create new challenges for both parents and children.
Do we need an appraisal or valuation?
The parties must reach an agreement on this, but in most cases, the issue is resolved by obtaining multiple appraisals. An average price is then calculated based on these appraisals, and the parties agree on a value. This is especially true if one party wishes to buy out the other. If the home is to be sold, the real estate agent ensures that an appraisal or valuation is in place before the home is listed for sale.
Do you need help taking over the home?
When a relationship ends, financial considerations often determine whether you can stay in your home.
At Eiendomsfinans, you can get help assessing whether you can take over the mortgage on your own,
refinance your existing debt, or finance the buyout of a former partner or
spouse.
Contact us for a no-obligation review of your options.
Is there a difference between cohabiting partners and spouses?
The Marriage Act governs the financial settlement between married couples. The same rules do not apply to cohabiting partners. Since there is no separate law governing cohabitation, the financial relationship between cohabitants is governed by the general rules of contract law that apply to everyone else in society. There are exceptions, including those found in the Act on Joint Household Property.
Although the rules of the Marriage Act do not apply to cohabiting couples, there are nevertheless certain principles they share, such as the impact of a stay-at-home partner’s work in the home. Many of the same legal issues that arise in a marriage are also relevant in a cohabitation relationship.
